For those of you who are familiar with the movie classic, "Young Frankenstein," I like to refer to myself as "Abby Normal." I have a friend once who referred to normal as "a cycle on a dishwasher." It simply doesn't exist. If we ask ourselves what normal is, can we really answer? And does it help us achieve happiness?

True story. I have red hair (or had, really; now it's strawberry blond). People used to stare at me and focus on my hair color. It, the unique hair color, became who I was. Needless to say, I despised it because I was different. I did everything I could to fit in, including acting like someone I wasn't, all so I could "blend in" with society. But I observed over time, no matter how hard I tried to put on a smiley face and fit into every situation based on how others acted or responded to me, redheaded and all, I wasn't achieving happiness.

I'm all grown up now (at least I tell myself this). I've come to realize that our uniqueness is why we are here in the first place. Our individuality is what makes us most beneficial to everyone around us. If we consistently conform to be normal and fit in, we and everyone in our spectrum are not learning anything. If "normal" is a societal standard, and we've grown up believing that A+B=C, why on earth would we want to deviate? Society very clearly tells us that normal is key, and in order to achieve happiness and success, we need to follow a specific path.

How many of us are truly happy following the path that society has laid out for us?

Really think about it. How many of us attain what we have been promised since childhood (the job, kid, family, etc.) only to learn that it's not everything it's cracked up to be? Once we do have the money, the car, the career, the kids, do we feel complete? That's normal - above normal. So, why do so many clients come to me wondering what more life has to offer?

What I can say is this:

Accept who you are as you are and where you are in the present moment. The present is the only "time" that matters. WHO you are is valuable and necessary in the much bigger picture of life. WHAT you do is important in terms of how it affects your level of joy and the light you share with those who surround you - including perfect strangers. Accept your "abby-normality." Do what you love and what you love will come to you. Three-fold. 

Sending unconditional love,
Jess

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